Why is it that sometimes the simplest of things are often the most neglected. The Lord has counseled us to pray often. As a family we pray at meal time. We thank Him for the food and ask Him to bless it. We pray at bed time. We thank Him for the day and for our blessings and ask Him to watch over us and our loved ones.
But, why is it that when we are truly struggling with issues in our lives He is sometimes the last person we turn to? He knows what we're going through. He has suffered all things great and small, for us. If we but, turn to Him for comfort we shall receive it. He has promised us that He wouldn't give us anything we cannot handle. So when life feels like it's suffocating you and you can't lift your burdens any longer, don't try to stand. Instead kneel.
Pray for strength, guidance, comfort, support, and answers. Our loving Heavenly Father is waiting to hear from us. He wants us to come unto Him and have Him help lift our burdens. In return we will grow closer to our Father in Heaven. We will be able to recognize His spirit and guidance. And our personal testimonies will grow.
I know that prayer has been one of the greatest tools in my life. I have personally seen it's power in action. I've witnessed prayer work in others lives too. My young daughter has been one the greatest examples of prayer to me. She has had a testimony of prayer since a very young, tender age. She knows that when she's scared or unsure of things she can ask for a blessing of comfort. She knows that through prayer she can be blessed in her times of need.
Just recently she demonstrated her faith in prayer to help her with a challenge she was having in gymnastics. Mackenzie is currently a level 5 in gymnastics or a second level competitor. Her coaches have set certain levels of requirements each girl must meet in order to advance and compete. As this spring's competition season is approaching Kenz is pushing herself to obtain the skills necessary to pass off the requirements for competition. She has struggled with a few skills and excelled at others. The hardest skill for her is the jump on the uneven bars from the low bar to high bar and into her 'cast'. She literally gets frozen from fear and can't make the jump. We set several goals for her and she's met them. And it seems that as soon as she gets her jump, she looses it. As crazy as it might sound, this is a very common problem for athletes. As of last week her coach pulled her aside and discussed this spring's competition season with her. Because of the level she would be competing, her coach felt like Kenz wasn't quite ready. She wants her to focus on her skills and take this season off. Kenzie came home devastated. She and I discussed her options and I explained my concerns for her and tried to help her understand where her coach was coming from. I explained to her that I was nervous for her because level 5 is a singular one on one competition. If you're not a top scorer, you don't receive a medal or placement ribbons. I told her I didn't want her to feel bad or sad or beat herself up f she didn't place. I tried to explain that her coaches want her to have super confidence in herself and her skills before she competes. As her tears flowed she said, "mom, this is the first time ever wanted to quit gymnastics." She's been gymnastics since she was 3. I have always said, that once it's not fun and she doesn't want to continue she can quit. I asked her if this is what she really wanted. Of course the answer was no. She was just heart broken. She said to me, "I feel like they just ripped my goal away from me. I know I can do it. It's just taking me a little longer." I explained to her that the tryout meet is 9 practices away. That's only 2 weeks. Then we discussed if in that amount of time she could really get her 'jump'. She looked at me with tears in her eyes and said, "I'll never know if I don't try."
From there we set a few goals, I spoke to her coach and Mackenzie was given the 'OK' to tryout. As long as she can get her 'jump' consistently she can compete. On Monday when I dropped her off I gave her a pep talk and some words of encouragement. She rolled her eyes and smiled at me. I said "hey don't roll your eyes at me." She quickly responded with, "I know, I know. I can do this mom. I will do this!"
When I picked her up I was nervous to find out the result of the day's practice. When she finally jumped in the car, she says, "sorry I'm late, I was jumping." I looked at her stunned. She beamed with pride. I asked her how she did it. She responded with the most simple but, sincere and profound response, "I prayed." She then spoke knowledge beyond her years. She said, "I knew that if I was going to make my 'jump' I needed to ask for help. I prayed to Heavenly Father that if I did all that I could do, then I knew He would help me have the confidence needed to do it."
She had the faith needed to have her prayer answered. In case you're wondering, her tryout meet is the 29th of the month. We will see what happens.
I know that it's never too early to teach a child to pray. They have the simplest faith and are the greatest example to me.